Thursday, December 31, 2009

Snapshots of December

This will be my last post of 2009, and hopefully I'll post more regularly in 2010 (I have to remember that they don't need to be long, right?) Here is a glimpse of December happenings in the Green house:









The boys still love to decorate Christmas cookies, but I do notice the amount of time they are willing to spend each year shrinking.














The Christmas Eve picture you weren't meant to see...













Mom and Michael, getting their grove on to Jingle Bell Rock when they SHOULD have been working on the Christmas tree!





















Jake's lips were pursed, but he did a good job NOT blowing!
















"Up on the roof top reindeer pause..." Wait, this time it's little boys retrieving a lost ball.



















Watch out Gordon Ramsey...Michael's in the kitchen now and his language is MUCH cleaner!
























Decorating the Christmas tree


















More fake guitar...this time it's Beatles Rock Band! Steve got it for his birthday and LOVED it!














Celebrating Dad's birthday by lovin' on him:

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

London


It felt GREAT to step off the airplane into 75 degree, dry weather after being soaked to the core in London. But don't let that comment fool you into thinking that we had a miserable, rainy week along the shores of the Thames River.

It was quite a roll of the dice to even take a trip to London at the end of November. There were so many sights that we wanted to see, so much to do outside. Our apartment was in the heart of London; a 10 minute walk to Westminster Abbey, the Houses of Parliament, and Big Ben. There was a Winter Wonderland was going on in Hyde Park, complete with a German Christmas market (think mulled cider...), rides and attractions. And we can't leave out wandering the streets of Soho looking for interesting pubs after a night out at the theater. If the weather ended up being normal for London this time of year, the trip would have been a cold, damp disaster - or at the very least not what we had hoped for. Yes, it was taking a risk -- but come on...when have you known us to flinch?

Steve's sister Holly and her husband Kelly met us there, with their suitcases filled with somewhat random but much desired items for us such as racquetball racquets, college textbooks, Frangos, jeans, legos, and ink cartridges. Not only was it wonderful to be able to see them mid-year, but we love traveling with them and were delighted that they were able to join us.

The weather started out a bit drippy: our first night was spent wandering the immediate area in the rain looking for a restaurant. However, we woke up the next five mornings to blue skies and mild temperatures until the sun set. We spent a majority of our week outside, thinking every morning that the next day would certainly rain; the indoor attractions would have to wait until tomorrow. Unbelievably, "tomorrow" didn't come until our last day there. And once it started raining, it didn't stop all day, night..it was still going when we soggily boarded the plane. We got a real taste of what could have been, and it wasn't pretty.


Holly and I took the kids to see the Lion King at the Lyceum Theatre, celebrating it's 10th year there. The costumes and grandeur defied our imagination, the music was thrilling, and the boys were rapt with delight for the entire two and a half hour show. The larger musical numbers even had animals coming down the aisles! To to be fair, the boys would also add the priviledge of being able to drink blue slushies in the theatre during the show as one of highlights of the experience. And to be just as fair, my own excitement was evident when the lights came on at the end and there was no blue slushy anywhere on the floor! The whole afternoon exceeded our expectations in every way, and is included on all of our lists of favorite London memories.



Steve and Kelly saw the matinee show of We Will Rock You, a musical set to the music of Queen, while we were at the Lion King. Though I don't know any of the details, they apparently had a fabulous time as well and were impressed with the singing ability of the cast.


Amongst the best experiences we had in the city was the Royal London walking tour. The walk took us slowly from Trafalgar Square to Buckingham Palace where we would experience the famed Changing of the Guard. Our guide was animated, energetic, and above all not one bit ashamed to express his passion for England. As he defended the monarchy we got a dose of insight into why this seemingly outdated, seemingly irrelevant institution is still such a large part of the modern British identity. Our guide also had friends in the guard and after a quick cell phone call, he made arrangements for the kids to stand in the guard boxes, apparently something that NO ONE is normally allowed to do.


I'm not sure what Holly and Kelly would say about the food in London, but we greedily gobbled up every bite! In Saudi, our choice of restaurants on the compound is pretty slim and I can make better tasting food at home. Even in Al Khobar, our neighboring town, fighting the traffic and avoiding prayer time makes it's too much of a pain to be worth the marginal food. Therefore, you can be sure that when we are traveling, especially in places where it's safe to eat the food and drink the water, that we make the most of it! Some of our most memorable meals were authentic pub fish and chips with beer on tap, wine and cheese from a local deli, and scones with clotted cream at Harrods. Thanks to our wonderful sister and brother-in-law, Steve and I were able to have a night out and enjoyed an intimate dinner at a French restaurant as well.

As always (and I know you probably get tired of me saying this), the boys traveled like professionals. They continually amaze me with their willingness to walk all day, go on tours, and try new things. Michael even took the subway and city maps a couple times as navigator. That's my boy!








To see more pictures of our week in London, you can view my Facebook album by clicking here (you don't have to have a Facebook account to view them).



Saturday, December 26, 2009

Reflecting on Christmas 2009



2009 was our second year celebrating Christmas in Saudi Arabia. Having Steve's parents here last year was a wonderful experience, one that we will always remember. At the same time, having them here masked the uniqueness of our community during the holidays, something that we would not discover until this year.


We haven't actually spent Christmas back in the Seattle area since 1996. That's not to say that we haven't spent the holidays with family at all in those thirteen years. While in Maryland we managed a couple trips up to Connecticut for Christmas with my Uncle Lee, one that included my dad meeting us there. We've also had Steve's sister Holly and her husband Kelly out twice, once in Maryland and once in Michigan. Still, including last year in Saudi, that accounts for only six out of the thirteen Christmases with family.


Occasionally when we were in the states we would invite families over for Christmas dinner with us. However, most of the people we knew either had family joining them, or went out of town for the holidays. We didn't think much of it, and just made our own traditions that were completely focused on the four of us. No obligations, no stress, no guilt...and a whole lot of staying in our pajamas!


This year came as a surprise though. Had I thought more about it in advance, it would have made sense. We were invited to go sand sledding on Christmas Eve morning, invited to "just hang out together" on Christmas Eve, invited to a couple different Christmas Eve services, Christmas morning brunch, and several Christmas dinners. It was way more Christmas than we were accustomed to, or could even manage. However, none of the invitations came with any obligation, just a longing to be together. After careful thought, we narrowed the festivities down to a dinner with close friends at our house on Christmas Eve, and one Christmas morning brunch at another family's house.




What makes this community so different during the holidays than the others we have lived in? I think it's that most families are either back in their home country with their extended family for the holidays, or they are here alone. There are very few people that stay in the Kingdom that have family coming in, besides teenagers returning from boarding school. Those of us that are here alone, bond together, much in the same fashion that we do all year long.






We end up creating a family of sorts - the people that you know you can count on in a pinch. You can count on them for anything from borrowing a can of pumpkin at Thanksgiving when the stores have none in stock...to asking someone to watch your eldest child while you take the youngest to the ER. In the absence of movie theaters, concerts and other entertainment ...the people you hang out with on the weekends.


It gave us a lot to think about this year: a chance to reflect on what we want Christmas to be for our family. What is a good balance for us? What traditions do we want to keep in place, and what can be sacrificed in exchange for spending time with people who mean a lot to us? And can we manage all of decisions without adding stress into our life?